Also I’m  the worst advice givererererer ever sry. Pls try and bare with me. You cute lil honey bunches of oats. (I’m sorry for this sounding like something that came off like a health advice column forum thing).

I totally understand the feeling of being self-conscious, it’s really hard in a relationship, especially a relationship where u’re sexually active. Do you want to have sex more? Or do you feel like you don’t have sex enough to have a healthy relationship? If sex is a thing you want to have more of (wow ok English), I would highly suggest talking things out with you partner, this includes the idea that you think he doesn’t find you attractive. Communication is the biggest key to a relationship imo. I’m sure your partner finds you attractive (unless he’s said otherwise, and in that case that’s mean and mb something else should happen) and it might be something on his end. 

This is really hard piece of advice to give tbh with you. I’m not the best advice giver, also if you feel like you’re not giving him enough sex don’t worry abt it bby bc no where does it say that having sex x amount of times means u have a healthy relationship.

Maybe another anon can reply or message me too with some advice bc I’m the literal worst???